From: Paul Allen Panks (
Subject: SWM, 26, looking for a wife 
Newsgroups: alt.romance,,
Date: 2003-05-21 21:32:52 PST 

To whom it may concern:

My name is Paul Panks and I am a 26-year-old recent graduate of
Northern Arizona University (Flagstaff, Arizona). I am looking to meet
my future wife. I prefer a woman ages 20 to 26, although exceptions
can certainly be made.

I am looking for a woman who knows the meaning of love, honor and
respect. Someone who will not hurt me or take advantage of my
generosity. In short, someone who is willing to eventually raise a
family with me and have children.

She must also understand that when I say, "I love you" it is for real.
When I love a woman, I love her 100%, completely and I treat her like
a princess. I am a very passionate man with goals, good manners and
christian faith. I do everything to please the person I am with and I
work hard at my job. When it comes to the bedroom, I love candles,
soft music, and cuddling. And I can certainly perform well in bed. I
have a strong drive and I love to please my partner with roses, cards
and gifts. I give awesome hugs.

I am a family-oriented man who wants to have a family. At 26, I have
reached the point where I would love to be father. I am not afraid of
committment and I love weddings. My idea of romance is being in love
with one woman for the rest of my life. I am not afraid of marriage. I
look forward to the wonderful opportunity God grants me.

If you are a woman, ages 20 through 26, and you want a husband, give
me a call. I am faithful, loving and I care a great deal for others. I
would like to work for a hospital or hospice in the near future.
Although my degree is in Sociology, I love computers. I am an avid
basketball fan. And I love animals.

Please call me if interested at: 1-(480)-483-7837.

You may also write me at:

Paul Panks
4856 East Cheryl Drive
Paradise Valley, Arizona  85253

I can be reached, alternatively, via e-mail at:

Remember, this is for real. I am looking to meet a woman who will
become my wife. I am not looking for jokesters to call me up at 2 am
in the morning. I am looking for a woman, hopefully from the Phoenix,
Arizona area. Flagstaff, Yuma, Tucson and Sedona are ideal as well.
But anyone who is serious, committment and honest, is welcome to
become my wife. I do not judge, and I do not play games.

When calling, ask for Paul.

With sincerity and love,

Paul Panks
from Paradise Valley, Arizona

From: Paul Allen Panks (
Subject: I am here to find a wife 
Date: 2003-06-28 21:06:08 PST 

To whom it may concern:

My name is Paul Allen Panks and I am looking for a wife. I am a
26-year-old recent college graduate of Northern Arizona University
(NAU) in Flagstaff, Arizona. I am currently working in the field of
retail and sales.

My one and only one dream in life is to become a husband and a father.
I want so much to fulfill my dreams that I have taken out personal ads
on several online dating services. I have also met many wonderful
people off the net. I was engaged to be married for 2 1/2 years before
the relationship ended in March of 2003.

I felt deeply betrayed and heartbroken. But I am a strong, mature,
spiritual man who is committed to finding the love of my life. I am
not some poor sap trying to get people to laugh at him or someone
desperate for attention. I am sincerely and actively looking for that
special someone to fulfill my dreams as the woman of my deepest, most
electric sky world.

Two things that come to mind immediately about me are : Trust and
Integrity. I am trustworthy and FAITHFUL! That is a key point here. I
would NEVER cheat on anyone regardless of how the relationship was
going. I would be man enough to discuss the problems with my
significant one, and to explain to her my feelings of sadness and
heartfelt ache.

I am deeply and profoundly committed to maintaining a life of
spiritual, mental and physiological well being. I am a Buddhist at
heart, although my "religion" is more along the lines of the Essences.
I am not a radical. I believe that the light of the world comes
through the divinity in all of us, that we are all special co-creators
with God in a divine system of reality co-created by spiritual
entities. I believe in God and very deeply at that.

That being said, I wish for a wife who can fulfill my heart with love
and compassion. I wish for someone who can be at once my greatest
friend, compatriot, and lover all in one. I want to feel vulnerable
once again, especially in the arms of a very (deeply) internally
beautiful woman.

I am looking for a woman within the age range of 20 to 25. No more, no
less. I seek nothing but a simple gesture of faith; granted, this may
seem like a lot, but it isn't.

My gesture of faith is this:

If you are a woman out there who *truly* wants to become a wife and a
mother someday, and you are the ages of 20 to 25, then I ask from the
kindness and lovingness of my heart for you to give me a call at:

( 602 ) 867 - 0202

I ask nothing more than a single chance at loving you for the rest of
my life. I am 5 foot 2, 132 lbs., athletic, and very, very loving. I
am a most rewarding, loving and compassionate man.

If calling me is too much, or seems to be a geographic hassle, then
you may e-mail me anytime at:

I wish for women in the Phoenix, Arizona metropolitan area to step up
to the plate and give Paul Allen Panks a chance. If you do not live
within this area, it is also okay if you give me a chance. I would fly
anywhere to meet someone. Anywhere, anyplace, anytime to meet the
woman of my co-created dreams of love.

I know this all sounds "sappy", and it no doubt is, but come into my
world to experience the love of your life. I am a man worth waiting

I look forward to your reply, oh woman of my heart's desire.

Sincerely and with much love,

Paul Allen Panks
( 602 ) 867 - 0202

P.S. I thank you.